think for a minute......: Why Nice Guys Finish Last

Why Nice Guys Finish Last - 1 Major Reason

So why do nice guys always finish last?

What is so bad about being a nice guy anyway?

I mean all the leading males in the love films are nice guys and they get girls!

So being a nice guy has to work... doesn't it?

Well, I'm afraid to tell you.

But No...

Being a nice guy is going to kill your chances with women.

The longer you are nicer to them the less likely you are going to get anywhere with her!

So why is this the case?

The reason for this is because women are social creatures and so long as they can interact with you in a way that does not involve you constantly hitting on them to the point they feel uncomfortable they don't mind having you around. I mean, heck if a girl who was moderately attractive stuck by you and hung out with you and gave you great companionship and bought you gifts here and there, would you really want to sleep with her then run the risk of being together with her? Or would you rather just get the perks of being "just friends" but having her pamper you as if you were dating. I mean it's the best of both worlds for a guy! You get pampered by a girl, and you also get to go out and meet/sleep/date other women without feeling bad for the one who was nice to you.

Now do you get the picture?

If you are a nice guy to women and hope that you will eventually be the one she settles down with, please stop hurting your emotions. There is a term for guys that just hang around girls who they are attracted to but are either too nice or don't have enough game to make the woman he is hanging around with to be his actual woman...

What are these guys called?

These guys are referred to as "orbiters" because they just float around the world of the woman, making her the center of attention, giving her protection, companionship and validating her ego.

You don't want to be that guy, because women understand if they get the benefits of being in a relationship with you but without actually being in one, why should she need to commit to you?

I hope you understand this important concept and stop being such a nice guy!